01 / THE TOOLNO CLEAN VERSION REQUIRED
YOUR BRAIN HAS
37 TABS OPEN.
Dump them here.
Swear. Ramble. Contradict yourself. Forget half the story and remember it three minutes later.
You don't have to make it make sense first.
That's our job.
A LITTLE MORE ROOM TO THINK
LET'S LOOK AT IT.
An AI reading of what you shared. Check it against what happened. It can be wrong.
- SEE IT
- SORT IT
- OWN YOUR PART
- UNDERSTAND THEIRS
- SAY IT
WHAT MAY BE UNDERNEATH THE REACTION
WHAT WE ACTUALLY KNOW
- OBSERVABLE / REPORTED FACTS
- USER'S EXPERIENCE
- INTERPRETATION
- POSSIBLE PATTERN
- UNKNOWN
THE PATTERN WORTH NOTICING
WHAT DO I ACTUALLY NEED?
BOTH THINGS
CAN BE TRUE.
AND
WHAT CHANGES IF WE HOLD BOTH?
WHAT PART IS MINE?
ACCOUNTABILITY WITHOUT SHAME.
HELP ME UNDERSTAND THEIR SIDE
COPY & SEND
You choose whether to send it.
WHAT I'M ACTUALLY TRYING TO COMMUNICATE
02 / THE LEXICONSOFT LANGUAGE
PRECISE DOESN'T MEAN HARSHER.
SOFT LANGUAGE
PROTECTED
EVERYONE BUT YOU.
PRECISE DOESN'T MEAN HARSHER.
IT MEANS MORE ACCURATE.
The Lexicon helps you replace vague or softened language with language that more accurately describes what actually happened.
The phrase that smooths it over.
“Things got toxic.”
What actually happened, without guessing motive.
“My version of events was repeatedly dismissed, minimized, or rewritten when I disagreed.”
The clearest language the facts support.
“I felt systematically undermined.”
An example, not a verdict. Words like “repeatedly” and “systematically” need evidence of repetition.
LANGUAGE YOU CAN STAND BEHIND.
- SOFT
- SPECIFIC
- PRECISE
SOMETIMES YOUR
BRAIN KNOWS
BEFORE YOU HAVE
THE WORDS.
Unlit Goat makes tools for the space between
“I know something is happening”
and
“I finally know how to explain it.”
We're interested in patterns.
Language.
Communication.
Accountability.
And the weird shit brains do when we're overwhelmed.
This isn't therapy.
It's a place to slow the fuck down long enough to see what's actually happening.
Words are easy.
Patterns tell the truth.
04 / WEAR YOUR LIMITSTHE SCAPEGOAT
PREORDER 001 — COMING SOON
THE SCAPEGOAT
COLLECTION
PREORDER 001 — COMING SOONComfort Colors.
DTF printed.
Made for people who are tired of explaining themselves.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO HANDLE THIS ALONE.
If someone is in immediate danger, call local emergency services. In the U.S., call or text 988 for suicide and crisis support. Outside the U.S., contact your local crisis service. This tool can't monitor your safety or provide emergency help.